Saturday 3/11/23

Last night, in the early evening, Tanja moved to room 10 in the Trauma Ward, a step down from the ICU. It’s quite a different environment–less intensive, essentially.

In the ICU the rooms are glass walled and a nurses sits at a station outside the room where they survey the one or two patients they are responsible for. Vitals are monitored constantly and appear on a board in your room, at the nurses station and at the central hub.

The new ward is much calmer and feels more like a hospital rather than a hyperdrive spacecraft bound for planet health . The nurses are great–kind and responsive–and are responsible for a larger number of patients. The environment is calm, without that urgency that is so reassuring in one’s early days in the ICU but which progress and increasing health render gratifyingly unnecessary. It’s great to be able to track Tanja’s MAP in realtime hour after hour, day after day. But it’s even greater not to have to.

As part of this new life on the ward, Tanja is losing some things–her central line, her a-line, her catheter–and gaining others, like permission to have flowers in her room and a handy bedside commode. Oh, and a fantastic view, which, due to the C-collar’s restriction of her neck movement, Tanja has yet to truly enjoy.

One interesting thing we’ve noticed, as Tanja starts to see more friends and family here at the hospital, is the therapeutic effect these visits have, on Tanja of course, but maybe even more so on the visitors. It’s scary to hear about this person you know to be something of a dervish of activity–of hugs and hobbies and dance moves and constant motion– suffering a paralyzing injury. It is natural to wonder and worry about what she will be. Then you walk in and it’s Tanja, unmistakable in her energy and her outlook and it is a balm.

As I write this, she has been busting out bicep curls like prime-time Schwartzenegger and now has exercised herself into a peaceful slumber with a very thoughtful look on her face.

Oh, there’s lots of things: the c-collar is super uncomfortable and will be there for another five weeks, her G.I. tract has yet to shift out of emergency mode and is causing her much discomfort, her head wound is pretty sore. But overall, it has been a good day, a little better than yesterday, and the mood remains hopeful.

In an attempt to keep life toward the normal, I took Wren to a squash lesson today, one we’d scheduled with my teacher way back in the before times. After the lesson, I told the teacher what was up with Tanja. He listened, asked a few questions and then said, “She’s going to have a total recovery.” A ridiculous thing to say. But, as I think about it, I’ve never known him to be wrong.


2 responses to “Saturday 3/11/23”

  1. Hi Jody,

    I hope things are going well for you; It is great that you and Ashley were able to have a good conversation about the recent events in your family.

    Here is the latest of the upbeat blogs from Jed. What a blessing he is in Tanja’s life, and of course she is a blessing and inspiration to him and to all of our family! With a little luck and the help of Lyft I hope to get up to see her tomorrow. At first I did not want to be in the way and hinder her recovery but it sounds now like she would welcome company. I think that if I can get there I can catch the trolley back. It could be an adventure.

    Melissa came to visit me today. She is another ray of sunshine!

    Happy weekend to you, Monica

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  2. Hi Tanja and Jed,

    Such good news that you have left intensive care and moved to the Trauma ward! Forward and on and on!

    I woke up this morning with a plan to go see you; I would take Lyft to get there and later return via the tram and the trolley. Then at breakfast I learned that not only does the tram not run on weekends but that the Shamrock Run is today! It will impact traffic on Terwilliger, so that friends who offered to drive me there can’t do it and Lyft could be problematic , too. 🙁 I will look for a day soon when I can take time off from the clearing of the house project to go see you. Can’t wait to see you with my own eyes!

    In the meantime, I look forward to each day’s blog and you are always in the front of my mind.

    Much Love, as always, Monica

    PS- By the way, Jed’s email address does not come up when I type in his name. Will an email in Tanja’s name reach her? Or should I just stick with replying to a blog? Obviously, I am not technologically savvy !

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